A Test of Friendship

It comes to a point when walls we built around our selves have to be broken down to give way to a budding friendship. Although I never planned to be, I ended up being friends with people who I personally don't know. But I guess it is a part of life of being someone who have had a direct relationship to this site to risk one's self to be a part of someone's life and that someone be a part of one's self.


Each and every relationship we had has its own legacy. Each and every friend we make, tests of friendships exists. And I guess this is the first time I am putting myself in-between two persons who are dear to me.

Instead of pointing fingers, reacting negatively or blame anyone who's at fault at what, I have decided to say a story that I myself have experienced and seen:

One day, V asks if he could have a night out when he visits Gaylandia with some friends, he has been in constant contact with B and X. Further to that night out, V asks X if he could invite J for V to hire. X obliged to those requests and even invited R to join, note that J & R are two of the apple of the eyes in a certain beckyworld.

And the night was set, S and C also confirmed to join. Further to that B thought why not invite more beckies? So B invited a lot of his friends and had A, G and H join the fun as well.

The meet up started smoothly. B came and met A and H to which they joined G in an early dinner before everybody else came. S and V together J came. C came and lastly V arrives. B has been constantly dragging E to come along as well, but E didn't came. R was suppose to follow as he has an earlier engagement with somebody else.

The group is now set and it has been decided to go to a place where the gyrating bodies of males really spikes up the prices of food and drinks. The soiree started smoothly, R came as well. But as time passes by and more drinks has clouded their minds, things has started to go spiral.

J has not been acting as he was asked to. He has been clingy to X at the very start. So X decided to table a half naked male to get rid of J. At first X saw it as a success. the group has conspires for J to sit himself next to V. And they are by now getting to know each other as it should be.

But J has his own pace, he was next seen seated next to A and are having a good time chatting as well. X was rather furious since he thought his plan was not going according to what was planned. More drinks later, X can be found in the common male CR scolding J at the top of his lungs with S and R as witnesses, without beknowing that A was also there.

Words has been said and it hurt A.

As the night ended and dawn came, J can be found again clinging to X. Drinks has totally taken over X and was already uncontrollable. B saw what was coming and tried to do a damage control. But to no avail, X bade his farewell with J throtting behind.

B saw that the group was rather dissapointed, with the thing in the CR and V being left behind. B knows that this will be chat topic for days to come.

Thankfully, V although dissapointed, has been saved by R.

In the common community, B was right. X has been the topic whenever the guys get together in the chat. So B talked with X and asked him to do the right thing. X apologized to A publicly. Things went well as B thought, and here he was wrong.

A although accepted the apology, didn't moved on. Grudge has been instilled. Whenever X appears, A would chide about something that pertains to X.

Until it came to a point when X has just called it quits.

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This story has been written open endedly. Words has been chosen not to take sides but rather retell the past and let the people learn.

With understanding comes maturity. Age doesn't define how mature a person is but rather with how one understands the world, even if the world has been tough.